This week has been another tough one so far. I don’t seem to have the energy to do much of anything. I can barely lift my feet sometimes to walk across the room. There are a couple projects for work I’d really like to work on but just have zero ability to sit up and concentrate on them. I have a couple personal projects that are the same. I struggle feeling like the days are wasted but I am learning to be okay with that (I think). Every time I get feeling this way I get affirmation from so many places that “to exist and rest” is enough. I’m trying really hard to do that but am usually unsure that I’m doing it “right.”
Karen took me to the Greenbelt here in Boise this am and pushed me in my wheelchair. It was hot today (94 degrees!) but she pushed me along. She is so good to me. And the Lord has given her such an athletic body that even in her late 40’s she is incredibly strong and agile. Anyway, we walked along the river which was gorgeous, watched some kayakers in the waves and ate a Bomb Pop she bought for me. While I couldn’t be “productive”, Karen and I were able to steal some time together which is so precious to us.
If you really want to know where my thoughts went today while we strolled along the river, here it is: We feel so blessed to be living in such a wonderful place, with wonderful people, and wonderful opportunities. We have always been outdoor people and there’s so much to do here with each other and with family and friends…but just as we were lead here and settled, we received my prognosis. Sometimes it feels like a dirty deal but I just have to go back to: God is good and God knows best. That’s the only way I can keep going. If I center my thoughts there, everything else seems to fall in place.
On a totally different note, please be in prayer for our oldest son Dakota. He has some difficult decisions to make regarding his future and he has to make them sooner than he’d like.
Kasey has her school play this weekend, Fri, Sat and Mon.
Kadin began working at Lowe’s for the summer in the building department and is really enjoying it.
Praying for all ya’all continuously! Mark & Carol
Praying God will restore your strength so you can accomplish those things you desire to complete. Prayers for each of you. All the time God is Good!
The faith and hope in Jesus you guys have is shining so incredibly bright in what also is a hard time. Your testimony and legacy is already changing people! We are praying for you and the family, we love you and look forwards to when we can see you all again 💕
Glad to hear you were able to get out and enjoyed the walk with your lovely wife. Bless you all and praying for you.
Blessings to you sll
So glad you had some time together in a beautiful place. Thankful for Karen’s athletic ability 🙂 as she pushes you in 94 degree weather. Just rest and let her do all the work. I can testify that she doesn’t mind it because she loves you! May you experience joy tonight!
Love and hugs
Praying for the strength for you to finish the projects that are necessary and also in the waiting until you have the strength.
Being outside is therapeutic. Enjoy the walks. Love you guys.
Happy to hear that you and Karen were able to sneak out and spend time together. Yes God is good always. I pray for You everyday Wes and your whole family. I’m asking God everyday to give you all the strength,, courage and hope you need. With Him, nothing is impossible. I will add to my prayers to give you energy and clear mindset to accomplish what you need to do personally and work. I love you! Virtual hugs to all!
And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus – Philippians 4:19 CSB
Thank you again for sharing your heart!! We’re continuing to pray for God’s Miraculous healing and strength!! We love y’all and miss you like crazy!!
Praying for you all the time.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and prayer requests. They are important and a real blessing. Kathy and I are praying for all of you…
Praying for you all during these uncertain times❤️
Praying and Praising God for His continued faithfulness! Love you all very much and so blessed by your continued strength and desire to Glorify God regardless of the circumstance!
I look at you and your family and it reminds me of back in January Jim challenged us with a question. What will bring God more Glory? So often the path that will bring God more glory is not the easy one! I look at you and Karen and consistently see you guys making the tough decision that will ultimately bring God more glory, humbly and faithfully! You are an encouragement to me and so many others in my walk with God! Your strength and courage give me strength and courage to continue to surrender daily to him and make the tough decisions that prayerfully will bring God more Glory!
Thank you! You cannot see or know how many people the ripple effect of the way you choose to live your life will impact others and their walk with God in a positive way!
Dear Wes,
Just want to let u know that being who God made u to be is more important that what u do. As u’re led by God’s Holy Spirit u Will do things “right”. Just “be”& the what will follow. U’re such an example of how to persevere under physical duress from the cancer. Thank you for ur testimony of appropriating God’s grace. God bless & keep you & ur family in God’s everlasting arms. (Deut. 33:27)
Sincerely,
Paul
I’m so glad you guys were able to enjoy the Greenbelt! What a beautiful day to do so. So love your positive attitude and affirmation to and for your Karen! She is a gem!!! Praying for energy and strength to return! Praying for all three kids in all of this! Will see you soon! Love, John and Laura
Dear Wes,
Your transparency inspires others as you, Karen and your family travel this journey. The depth of your faith in God and love for one another and your family is an example for all. In that alone you are actively serving the Lord. Perhaps the most valuable “projects” you have right now is spending time with your loved ones. We are praying for each one of you and for the decision Dakota needs to make. May God encircle you in His loving arms.
Most sincerely in Christ, Eleanor Dunlap
You are truly an inspiration and the very best example of a Christian!
I pray for God to give you peace and strength.
God bless you and your lovely family!
( I am a friend of your parents)
Dear Wes….God works and shines through you and Karen. You are blessings everywhere you go. Thank you for blessing all of us here with your thoughts and feelings.
Keeping you in prayer for strength and joy ahead! You’re right where you are to be for these moments!
Love To You All!!
Being faithful in suffering is a ministry in and of itself. So glad you got outside! Praying for a great show weekend and wisdom for Dakota.
Dearest Wes and Karen, just remember in your weakness His strength will hold you up. Love you. And He loves you more!!
You two are amazing!! Loving each other and giving Glory to God in all circumstances! Sending love and prayers… 💕
Enjoy every second cause all of us are one second closer to being with the Lord. Hallelujah!
It’s encouraging to hear about how to rest in Christ each day and moment. May He be with you all intimately.
We Love you guys. Keep sharing these requests as your many prayer warriors are still with you. Praying for your family and specifically that Kasey will enjoy and crush it in her play! Go Kasey 😁.
Run with endurance my brother.
Our hearts and prayers continuously are for healing, strength and longevity.
You all are loved and missed beyond infinity! Church just isn’t the same without you all there. kelly
Praying for you and the whole family! So glad Kasey is in a play! Thank you for sharing the wisdom and hope God is giving you in this difficult time.
Wes, I don’t know how you think you are doing, but from our perspective, you are strength and poise. You are focused on what is important to you, faith and family. Yet your generosity in openness, sharing with us all even in this time of crisis is still there. Strength and poise, that is what your actions and words are from our perspective. Lately I have had my own health issues and health scares. Like always, you are a roadmap, an example of how to do things right. I find myself like always, drawing from your example, your beacon in the darkness to guide me in the right direction. We will meet again Wes, maybe later, maybe sooner. I look forward to meeting again and chatting with my friend. For those of us left behind, please guide us like you always have, if from a bit further away than usual. Please let me know what I can do to help in whatever way is needed. Even if you can’t call, I extend the offer to call me anytime for any reason. Take care Wes. Angel R.
Praying for you man!! Praying for the whole Coddington family!
Praying! God will bring all things that he wants you to finish to completion. You said you were outdoor people so that walk was a special gift to you, Draw in every special moment that He gives you. God Bless!
Praying for you and your whole family today Wes!
Scott
Praying daily that His presence will be your strength. Your lives have been a constant testimony as each day you trust all to the leading of the Shepherd. We pray for you here in Delaware in our various groups and it challenges us to follow closely after HIM IN OUR DAILY LIVES. KEEP ON LOOKING TO HIM for each day. Love Aunt Mildred PSM 143:8 Make me know the way I should go.
Hey Wes, please know that for so many of us, you existing is indeed enough. I think of you daily. Every time I get an email that you’ve posted again, or your wife has posted again, I just get this boost in my spirit. Because you exist. You mean so much to so many people, Wes. It’s easy to be of strong spirit when everything is going your way. What you are doing is being strong in spirit when things aren’t going your way. And it is such a testimony, such an ongoing, living example and reminder of how fortunate we all are, yourself included. You got to take a walk and spend time with your wife today. Is there a price you can put on that? You set such an example for the appreciation we should all feel, each and every day. I’m so grateful for you, my friend.
Mike
Wes.
There’s no other way to say this: this whole thing sucks! Not what you “signed up for”! But beyond the reality of this situation I know that you know that despite it all God is present, guiding, and not taken by surprise by any of it. We don’t have to like lots of things about life but we do experience that underlying “joy” and assurance that He is good and that it will all make sense. We love you. Jeff and Rory
Wes and Karen,
Thrilled to hear of your intentional time to get away, see things of beauty that inspire and just be together enjoying the gift of each other.
We grieve with what you are managing- but keep praying you sense His grace and live surrounding you.
Love and prayers,
Barb
Wow! what strength I see and so much Love, I have no idea what it’s like to see through your eyes but I can identify strength when I see it .all I can see is God ,strength, and Love through you and your family I’m so encouraged to fight the good fight of faith and to look forward to a glorious Crown. I love you and your family for continuing to show the Gospel through all adversity I am with you in prayer and community so thy Kingdom come and thy will be Done on earth as it is in Heaven. And in Heaven all is well 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜.
2 Corinthians 12:9-10
But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me. For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong.
“Allowing” Him to live through you is strength and is WAY more productive than you could ever imagine!
Praying for you daily. I’m overwhelmed by your inner strenght.
Hello To our soldiers in Christ!
You are AMAZINGLY Blessed , Your spirit is the most uplifting encouraging words I have heard all year. I have good news for you Wes ! Jesus is ALIVE and Here! The second coming is just around the corner 🙂 xoxoxoxx
… I hope you and Karen and the kids enjoy every waking moment you have together as you all walk closer with the Lord. You have had the ability to touch the hearts of the most broken people and I share you and your family every chance I get with anyone who will listen.
Our Lord says, It is time ! He is Coming Wes ! I had this amazing dream that the Sky had opened up and He was as big as Life. He is so close to us, Can you feel him? I know you can ,,lol.. I love you all . I am forever grateful for all you have given of yourself , Mind Body and Soul . You are LOVED so deeply by our LORD ! He told me so:) As are you too Karen, I have yet to find anyone with a heart like yours I miss you all everyday. But I am with you in spirit always. I love you .
Love and prayers over your entire family. Praying for enjoyment watching your daughter perform and for your sons jobs and decisions! May God bless you Wes and Karen and make His face shine upon you!! May you have supernatural strength for each day ahead of you both. Love you all and miss you all. As kids camp is coming up we will miss all and talent and laughs you gave to the NS community. That was just one part of how you all made a difference in many lives for Christ. Blessings and peace.