The RV Pad Project
Last night Dakota saw a group of people who were standing out front pointing at our tree and property. First thing this morning a team of workers showed up and started the process. Front tree is mostly gone and the grass has been removed. Men came and drew out the property and utility lines. We are still a go with this project.
Our Last 2 Days
Yesterday we spent the morning mourning, taking naps and comforting each other. By late afternoon we decided as a family that we were going to continue with our day. Kadin went out with a friend and all of us went to my softball game. It was hard to continue without Wes, but the truth is he is in a better place and he would not want us to be sitting around moping when we have opportunity to be active in our community.
Today the boys and I played some games, chatted with Kasey, had some friends over and went out with Doug and Grace. Tonight some of the boys friends stopped over and they are playing games together. Kasey, is still on the road traveling to Albuquerque and is surrounded by loved ones and is well supported.
We have laughed and cried throughout the day and are constantly reminiscing of events or moments with Wes. We even received an entertaining letter just reminding us of how crazy, fun, and creative Wes was… but that is a story for another time.
Arrangements
The service will be held July 2, at Crosspoint Church of Caldwell. Afterwards, we will go to the graveside in Meridian for the interment. For anyone traveling and is needing a hotel, our family is in the process of getting a block of discounted rooms nearby. Just let us know if you are considering a hotel and would like more information.
Polaris
Yesterday was Polaris’ first birthday! The boys made her a pup cup of whipped cream and lit a toothpick candle (since we didn’t have any candles). Didn’t get a picture but she loved it and ate it all up!
So glad to hear you are doing everyday things with each other and friend. Wes is watching and enjoying it too. Blessings, that’s what the Coddingtons – BLESSINGS
Aunt Ruthanne and I will be there. Would definitely appreciate the hotel info, Grace has my info.
Please know we are praying for the family. We love you all.
God is so good in that we have the assurance of being reunited with Wes again in heaven. He’s waiting fir us all to have a huge family reunion. We will miss him till then.
Karen, this was probably the most encouraging post I’ve read on the Coddington tribe. To read and see how you all are holding tight to the Lord and to each other is uplifting. Praying for continued strength in the Lord. Wes has left a mighty legacy as a man of God, and you continue to demonstrate throughout all of this the legacy of a godly woman. Continue to fight the good fight, to run the course and to hold fast to the Christ centered living that the two of you have so exemplified. We love you guys.
Hi Karen and family, As always you have lifted our spirits with the blessings and faith you continue to give us. I was able to give Kasey a quick hug on Sunday, I am not sure if she remembered who I am but it felt good to give her a hug. She had a lot of support from her friends around her. Our prayers are with you all as you go through each day. May the Lord’s promises give you peace and strength and Wes’s parents also. With our love, Dee and Sonny
Lou and I are spending a lot of time reminiscing about your time up here in Manitoba. Our memories are filled with fun times, always trying our best to keep up with you young uns. Our hearts are so heavy for you, but weirdly, somewhat relieved, now that Wes is out of misery and is where he longed to be. May God hold you close as you travel this world without him!
Our God is so Awesome! Thank you, Karen, for sharing! You and Wes continue to inspire!! Love and Comfort to you all!
Hi Karen and kids, thank you for being so open and real and allowing us to travel this journey with you. Wes made a tremendous impact on me back in 1992 at PCB when I was a nervous little slow freshman runner on the cross-country team. He made me feel welcome, save, valuable, and part of the family.
I know that as he grew in the Lord over the years, he has had an incredible impact for God’s kingdom.
As someone who is a few years ahead of you on the road of being a caregiver to a spouse through a terminal illness and now a widow, I especially am praying for you as you learn to navigate and to mourn and to live without Wes physically in your lives. Much love to you all.
To the Tribe: What a wonderful dad the Lord has taken home. I know it will be hard at times to fathom what has just happened but God’s comfort and grace will sustain you. I am praying for you every day. I sat and cried here at my desk while watching each of the videos your dad made. If is very special to have these as reminders of his love and of the Father’s love. Keep on, keeping on for the Lord; may he grant you peace.
The only way for true healing is moving on with God’s love. Glad you are doing somethings even if it is half-hearted for now. Your faith is amazing and has lifted everyone of us up. Continued prayers for your healing, God is faithful.
Karen, you have such a great approach to mourning a loved one. It isn’t always an easier way but you’re right in that is how Wes would want it.
You won’t forget him; instead you’ll remember how invested he was in his family, friends, and community and how he lived his days pouring out his Christ-like love for others.
I admire your strength and will pray for its continuance as your family follows along this new journey.
Karen, Kim and I remember you and Wes coming to our church with so much love for ministry. We are praying for you as your journey continues through grief and through joy. Your strength is an inspiration to all who know you. May you feel God surround you with His comfort and peace.
I love your strength and God has given you some great kids. Thank you for sharing your day and your heart for others. Looking forward to seeing you soon… Love you!
Praise be to God for the strength He is giving you and family! God has done the same when I lost Bob eighteen months ago! Lord showers me with his love and strength. Loved all the videos Wes made. Cried through them all! What a man! He and Bob are together. Someday we will all rejoice being together!
Prayers continue for your beautiful family !!
In His Love, Betsy
Laughing and crying right along with you! So thankful you are finding God’s comfort and encouragement in the early stages of grief! Enjoy getting your posts to stay current on how you and the kids are doing!🥰💕
What an amazing gift Wes has left you, his voice proclaiming his love for Jesus and his love and care for each one of you! We continue to pray each day for you all as you move through your new normal. I’ve told my kids all my funny Wes stories! It warms my heart to remember all the laughter and shenanigans. Lots of love to you guys <3
Hello Karen, Jeff & Cris Cameron from SC. Can you send us info on hotels there. We will be coming for the service on July 2. Thanks Love you guys